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So it’s been a few quite months here on the blog. For the past weeks I have been in an intense bubble of essay writing, and it has kept my motivation away from many things that I normally enjoy. Last Monday my essay partner and I sent in the final version of the essay, and a few days later our examinor confirmed that it was complete. Finally. We could not be more happy with our grade, and after the feeling of a never-ending story we can now leave the fifth semester of Uni behind.

Since this summer will be my last “summer break”  before graduation in January I felt like a little summer adventure was needed, and I will therefore spend a few weeks of the summer in London, working within the bar industry again. And I am leaving today!! I am really excited, but it will be hard to be away from Dave of course. I am already longing for the day I get to squeeze him tight to me again after a few weeks apart.

While I was doing my daily inspiration/blog/fun stuff search this morning I found a text that I really liked and that I thought I would share it with you. It’s by Mary Schmich (though attributed as Kurt Vonnegut’s MIT commencement speech, 1997), also known as The Sunscreen Song.

Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now. Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they’ve faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you’ll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don’t worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday. Do one thing every day that scares you. Sing. Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours. Floss. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long and, in the end, it’s only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how. Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements. Stretch. Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don’t. Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You’ll miss them when they’re gone.

Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else’s.

Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don’t be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own. Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room. Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them. Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents. You never know when they’ll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They’re your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future. Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel. Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you’ll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders. Respect your elders.

Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you’ll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out. Don’t mess too much with your hair or by the time you’re 40 it will look 85. Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen.

How great is this text? Even though I don’t relate to all the words it gives me a big dose of no-need-to-worry! xx

the morning dip

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summer sweden

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spider web summer

summer face

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summer dip

Could there be a better way to really wake up in the morning than with a refreshing morning dip? Naw!! August, I feel ready for you now!! Have a great day lovelys!! xx

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On my list of favourite tumblr and blogs I am adding a new member. It is wolfcubchronicles.blogspot.se (source of all images above) who is generously posting lots of beautiful and inspirational pictures. I will sum it up with women, nudity, lots of nudity, picture editorials, water, nature, statements, and lots more! When I first found it I couldn’t help myself looking trough page after page after page. Have a look yourself! xx

topshop delivery

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new balance

new balance

A couple of days ago I got my delivery from Topshop and I have to say that I am so thrilled about my first pair of New Balance trainers. I wore them all day yesterday and they are so comfy and great. I have a feeling I’ll live in these buds this summer! xx

dungarees

bleach longnavy washed dungaree

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Bring back the 90’s! Dungarees make me think of elementary school when all the kids were running around in their denim ones, with patched knees! Maybe it’s time to obtain a new pair! The light blue ones would be so great for summer! =) All from Topshop! xx

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